WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!
I’ve been a nude portrait photographer working with women aged 40+ in my studio for 23 years, and this is what I’ve learned about the real secret to body confidence…
1. Know Light ✨
Light changes everything.
Bad lighting can make us feel awful about our skin, shape, weight and age.
Great lighting does the opposite, it makes us feel incredible.
My studio lighting is designed to show your body at its most flattering, and it’s deeply empowering.
2. Shape 🔥
We judge ourselves based on the few positions we see every day, usually standing or sitting (often slouching!).
In my studio, I guide you into powerful, flattering poses so you can see your body with fresh eyes.
3. Wholeness 🌙
You are not a collection of body parts, you are whole.
We’ve learned to assess ourselves up close, clinically, especially in the bathroom mirror.
Seeing yourself in full-body portraits, with beautiful lighting and intentional posing, helps you realise just how gorgeous you truly are.
And here’s what most people miss:
4. Body confidence is a decision.
Decide now to stop listening to the negative voice.
Decide to celebrate instead of criticise.
Decide daily to choose kindness over hate.
Action is what shifts your mindset.
Seeing. Feeling. Deciding. Loving your body now.
Most of my clients are first-timers.
Women who’ve never had a professional shoot, let alone a nude one.
Most are over 40.
My oldest client was 86.
Body confidence has no age limit.
It’s never too late to meet yourself with kindness.
Your body is not the problem.
You just haven’t seen yourself through the lens of love.
I don’t just take photos, I help you rewrite the story you’ve been telling yourself about your body.
Comment “FREE GUIDE” to start your journey into self-love and learn how to never hate your body again. 🚀
Alexandra x
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